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Adulthood is wanting to cry for 4 days straight but not having the time
Gotta schedule my breakdowns now
“I know that I’m hard to love. Some days I’m all smiles and affection and then other days there’s nothing I want more than to be quiet and lie in bed. Sometimes I get angry about stupid things and won’t want to talk to you. Other days I’ll think that you’re the most perfect person in the world. Please don’t give up on me. I know it’s not easy but I’ll always come back to you.”— (via betrueblich)
(Source: reality-escape-artist)
Do you ever wonder why some people are stuck in a destructive cycle of self-harming behavior such as cutting, starving, overeating or abusing alcohol or narcotics? It stems from self-loathing. When a person suffers from low self-esteem they want to punish themselves in one way or another. It’s usually subconscious and if they are confronted they will most likely deny it.
It takes effort to recognize where the low self-esteem is stemming from. Sometimes it is from childhood neglect and other times it could be a result of abuse or bullying.
Stop punishing yourself for things that have happened to you that are not your fault. Start nurturing yourself as a way to build self-love.
You can’t change what has happened to you, but you can change how you react to those events.
Haleh Banani
If Allah has written happiness for you, then no one on earth can rob you of this. And if Allah has written for your heart to be broken, then no one will be able to remedy it except Him!